A conceptual introduction to the art of prostate pleasure
WHAT IS A PROSTATE ORGASM?
A prostate orgasm is a pleasurable experience that a man can achieve by stimulating his prostate gland via his rectum. A prostate orgasm is distinct from penile orgasm.
It can feel more intense and the whole body can take part, shaking and convulsing. These kinds of orgasms can be prolonged and by prostate stimulation a man can truly achieve the joy of multiple orgasms.
ANATOMY
The prostrate is situated behind the anterior wall of the rectum.
There is a pubococcygeus muscle or PC muscle inside the pelvis. It controls urine flow, contracts during orgasm and assists in ejaculation.
Learn to recognise and contract this muscle.
BEFORE DOING IT
It will take time.
You might want to enjoy this for months before anythin major happens. The good thing is that it will be quite a pleasurable wait. Repeated exercise will make your brain adapt to these new sensations and associate them with pleasure.
Do not give up:
Repeat the session the next day and throughout the year. It takes time to rewire your brain to experience this kind of pleasure. Even after you have once experienced it, during one session it might take up to an hour, maybe longer, to reach the first climax.
Relax:
The prostate orgasm is mostly about mental relaxation and letting go of expectations. It is more about your relaxed mental state than your bodily functions as with penile stimulation and traditional orgasms. Make sure you are not in a hurry. Take your time and turn off any distracting devices. Taking a shower or otherwise doing relaxing activities before might be beneficial. Take a comfortable position and take your time to relax by breathing in and out.
You’ll need to find your own position, but a good start is to just lay on your back, perhaps with a pillow under your bottom, to rise it up a bit.
The actual stimulation of the prostrate can be done with hands, a dildo or a vibrating toy. You might need to explore different options, before finding a suitable method.
WARNING!
ALWAYS use a toy with a base that prevents it from completely slipping inside you.
It might be rather embarrasing to go to the emergency room with something stuck in your rectum.
1. CONTRACTIONS
First signs of something happening might be the the PC muscles and spinchter, also known as peristaltic contractions. Thses are involuntarily and give a feeling of fullness in the rectum area and muscles.
One thing to remember is that you should separate penis from anus. The penis will probably stay flaccid at this point. Learn to dissociate anal pleasure from penile pleasure.
2. SENSATION IN PELVIS AND BUILDUP
You start feeling a hard swelling and muscle tension near the prostate gland, perhaps as if the tension was behind in the pubic bone.
This is a good sign although it might feel weird at first. It might also feel a bit warm.
Now is the time concentrate on that feeling and let yourself get familiar with it.
In time the feeling will get more intense and pleasurable.
3. TREMBLING AND PENIS REACTION
As the buildup occurs, the whole body might start to tremble.
It might feel weird and distracting at first. This reaction means that you are getting closer. The penis gets more erect at this stage.
Do not focus on your penis as it is just a part of the whole experience. Penile muscles might contract as if ejaculating.
Do not let it steal your attention, just let it happen as part of the whole.
This might happen many times as you keep pleasuring your prostate.
4. RELEASE & INTENSE P-WAVES
Maybe the first time but probably after many iterations your buildup leads to a powerful release. Your PC muscles will contract and the stimulation on the prostate will get intense.
Pleasure will radiate from the prostate throughout the body.
These waves of pleasure, or P-waves can occur even earlier. The release can be of varying intensity between sessions and during sessions if repeated.
Yes, now comes the beautiful part.
With traditional penile orgasms there is a refractory period before another climax can be achieved.
With prostate orgasms you can keep going like women, without any delay between orgasms.
Your penis might get flaccid. That does not mean that things are over.
Your whole body is in the game now and it will continue if you let it.
**Found on the internet on Tumblr. Edited by Laura Larue